Marriage

Been married for only 7 months, but oh boyz I can already feel the difference between the two phases (Single / Married). I always thought how different can being married be, how tough can it be to handle in-laws - I'm so so so wrong.

Marriage is between 2 person but once u're lawfully married, you have tons of responsibilities and duties piling on top! You must be thinking, erm ok it's the wife's duty to take care of hubby's everyday's needs, health & meals; what else? Well.. you must to learn to be accomodating, compromising and understanding not only to hubby but also your in-laws (most of the times applicable to mother-in-law). So you're taking into considerations more than 2 person's feelings & needs! There's this phrase - marriage is never just about two person; this is so true!

I must admit I'm not those very mild-tempered, patient, sensible lady... but I've learn to be one, well still learning it everyday because circumstances forces me to, if not all hell will break loose .. long ago! Haha. I am someone who yearns for independence and freedom because I was brought up in such way. My mum has never really interfere in my decisions and actions, perhaps that explains my independency too.. Ah hah, one important factor - she never nags for long. Haha

Initially shifted to stay together with my hubby at his mother's place after he came back from his 4 months sailing to catch up times. At the very beginning, my hubby already asked if I want to shift in while waiting for our new house renovation completion but I didn't agree immediately. Of course I would love to see him everyday esp from his long absence but I knew things ain't gonna easy staying in other people's house. No matter what, it's never your own house and each individuals have different housekeeping and habits.

Moereever I won't want to stir up any unnecessary troubles or unhappiness for that short 2 months. But it did happened. Haha. That's why I'm here writtting all these.

Actually marriage is a very beautiful thing in life (that every living soul should experience) .. but with obstacles/bumps added to make it more meaningful...