What's your definition of true love?
Does true love really do exists?
Have you found yours?


I have never believe in true love; it's only made possible in movie scripts. I remembered one of my gd friend telling me that there's no such thing as "Everlasting Love" which I truly agrees with him. There's only everlasting commitment & responsibility, because commitment= love+compromising+tolerance. I think as time goes by, it would be :


Together for 1 yr : 80% Love 10% Compromise 10% Tolerance


Together for 3 yrs : 60% Love 25% Compromise 15% Tolerance


Married for 1 yr : 50% Love 25% Compromise 25% Tolerance


Married for 3 yrs : 30% Love 35% Compromise 35% Tolerance


Married for 10yrs: 10% Love 40% Compromise 50% Tolerance


When would you think it's the right time to settle down? How would you define the Right Time??
When both have been together for donkey years? When you thought both understands each other well enough? When your parents start to pressurize you on it? When you feel it's time to move on to a new phrase in life?


Marriage is never about being the right time; it's a decision. It will never be happily ever after, you have to make it works. Alot of times people thinks it's time to move on, building up your own family but when they are in the process itself then they realised it's not easy because all surfaces as you move further. Many would give up after trying hard to make the marriage works. But how hard have you tried? Have you thought of giving up when you signed the marriage certificate?


Happiness will not always be there, so why not make it be there. Decision you made is for life so make it work for life. It's never easy to find someone you can spend the rest of life with, so why not find someone you want to spend your life with. The want might be the motivation push for you.


As I was writting this post, a sudden thought came into my mind - so what made my hubby decided about marriage? Am I the can or the want?


I wonders.....